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Feeling Stuck in the Same Cycle? Change is closer than you may think

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Do you ever feel like life is on repeat? You wake up, do the same routine, and even though you’re “doing all the right things,” there’s this heavy sense that nothing is really shifting and your life isn’t quite feeling right.

If this sounds familiar, please know – you’re not broken, and you’re definitely not alone.

Humans are strange things. Often, we stay in the same patterns for far longer than we’d like. Not because we’re lazy, or unmotivated, or incapable… but because the world around us is so noisy, distracting, and demanding that it’s almost impossible to create the space we need to think clearly.

That’s why clarity feels so elusive. When life is crowded and overwhelming, it’s not easy to see a way forward.

But here’s the thing: you don’t need to blow up your whole life to feel better. Real change often starts with something tiny – a shift in perspective, breaking a thought that’s been repeating on loop, or changing the story you tell yourself about your job, your partner, or your future.

And let’s be real: sometimes it takes hitting that tipping point, when life is shouting at you, when you’ve had enough, to finally take action. And that’s often where the magic begins.

That moment, when you feel stuck, restless, or “over it”, can actually be the perfect time to pause and get clarity. This is where the magic happens. That deep, honest moment when you realise: something has to change.

If you’re nodding along to this, know that you don’t need to have it all figured out. Sometimes the smallest shift in thinking can open a whole new sense of possibility.

That’s exactly what my free Clarity Coaching Call is for: a chance to pause, breathe, sort through the noise, and walk away with a sense of direction. No pressure, no big commitments, just you, me, and the possibility of a lighter, clearer path forward.

If that feels like what you need, I’d love to hold that space with you. 💛

You don’t have to have it all figured out right now. But you do need to give yourself space to hear what your gut is saying, to hear your innate wisdom – without drowning it in distractions.

I believe you do know what your next step should be. You’ve just got to get quiet enough to hear the answer.

If you want to create space and dive into this further, take advantage of my free Clarity Coaching Session. https://calendly.com/coachingwithbridie/coachingcall

The Power of a Reset: Creating Space to Think, Get Clear and Move Forward

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Life isn’t a straight line. Some days flow easily, others feel like they’re slipping through our fingers.

Lately, I’ve noticed my mind has felt heavier, busier, and I’m not the only one. Winter has a way of stretching out the harder moments. Energy dips, moods shift, and challenges feel bigger.

If that’s been your experience lately, you’re not alone.

But here’s the good news: as we edge closer to spring, it’s the perfect time to pause, reset, and create space for what’s next. Space to clear your head, decide what you want, and map out a plan that will guide you when life gets noisy again.

 

Why a reset is hard and why it matters

Our biggest challenge isn’t just busyness – it’s that we fill every gap.
Even when we do get time, we often scroll, binge-watch, or distract ourselves until the moment is gone.

But here’s the thing: how can we expect to know what we want, when we don’t pause for long enough to even find out what it is.

 

5 steps to create your own reset

  1. Make space intentionally. Block out time in your calendar. Step away from distractions – maybe sit by the river with your phone on flight mode, take a walk without headphones, or book a session with me to keep yourself accountable.
  2. Find stillness. You already have the answers. There’s just so much noise! This isn’t about being “woo-woo”, it’s about paying attention. Notice your breath, the feel of your clothes, the sound of the water. When your mind drifts, gently bring it back to your breath. Just be still.
  3. Ask a question. Pose a question that will help you gain clarity, then return to focusing on your breath. Just notice what thoughts start to surface. No need to push it.
  4. Get Writing: On paper, answer these:
    • How do I want to feel?
    • What’s one thing I can do to feel that way?
    • What else?
    • What’s one action I’ll take right now to start?
  5. Do it. No overthinking, no waiting for the perfect moment, just take the first step.

 

When you need more than a quick reset

These steps will help you pause and reconnect any time life feels full-on. But if your mind is constantly in motion and your days feel packed from start to finish, it can be hard to create that space on your own.

Even the highest achievers don’t go it alone. They work with coaches to protect their energy, sharpen their focus, and move forward fasterwithout wasting months (or years) circling the same challenges.

If you’re ready to step into the next season with more clarity, direction, and confidence in your decisions, you’re welcome to book a free initial Clarity Session. We’ll create the space you rarely give yourself, cut through the noise, and get you moving toward what matters most.

Because thriving isn’t about doing more, it’s about doing what matters, with confidence.

 

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The Choice I Never Thought I’d Question: 30+ and Choosing Not To Have Children

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For most of my life, I just assumed I’d have kids. I never really questioned it—until I did.

It’s 2024, and having children or not is the big, messy, beautiful, loaded topic my husband and I kept circling back to.

If you’d asked me ten years ago, of course I was going to have children. I mean—I’m a woman. I’m great with kids. I’m a teacher. That’s what I always assumed I’d do.

But at some point, things started to feel… off. There was this quiet pressure to do it all. I was building my coaching business, teaching full-time, trying to take care of my body, deepening my relationship with myself and my (then future) husband. And underneath it all, I was stuck in this exhausting mental loop of what ifs. I was terrified of making the “wrong” choice.

I’d say I wanted kids—and I meant it—but the truth? It stressed me out trying to picture where children would fit into the future I was envisioning. My mind spiralled with overthinking and self-doubt.

So I did what I know how to do. I pulled out all the coaching tools I’ve learned and gave myself permission to get really honest. What came through was clarity—so much clarity. It felt light. Freeing. 

As a Coach and Growth Facilitator, I’d been clear on my values for a long time. However I’m also only human and when life got busy it all seemed so hard and confusing. When I slowed down and gave myself the stillness and space to truly listen, I could finally see how I could live fully in alignment with them—without becoming a mum.

Living without regret is really important to me—and I know that aligning my actions with my values is the surest way to do that.

I’d be lying if I said I never think about it. We both do.
We’ve agreed to keep checking in with each other, making sure we’re still aligned. As people and their values can change. And—because it seems to be a hot topic at dinner parties lately—we often find ourselves justifying our decision to others.

But even with those conversations and check-ins, my heart feels full and my mind calm. 

Because this wasn’t a decision made out of fear or self-doubt. It was a decision made from knowing. I know who I am. I know what matters to me. I have a clear vision for the kind of life I want to live—and I’m living it.

And while no choice comes with guarantees, I know this: I’ve made this decision from a place of alignment and self-trust. That reduces the chance of regret—because I understand why I’ve chosen this, here and now.

At the end of the day, that’s all any of us can do: make the choice that feels most true in this moment, and trust ourselves to handle whatever comes next.

I wanted to share this because I know I’m not the only one quietly asking this question right now: 

“What if I don’t want kids?”“Will I regret it later?” “Can I choose not to have children and still live a meaningful life?”

As a 36-year-old woman in 2025, I feel like more and more of us are giving ourselves permission to actually ask these questions—without shame, without defaulting to what’s expected. 

And I want to say this clearly: I fully recognise that the journey to and through parenthood can be incredibly complex—and for some, deeply painful. Choosing to have children, struggling to conceive, choosing not to have children… none of it is simple. This is just my experience and my path, and I share it with deep respect for the many stories others carry.

So if you’re navigating the question of whether or not to have children—whether out loud or just in your own head—please know you’re not alone.

There’s no “right” way to do life. There’s just your way.
And when your decisions are rooted in your values—not pressure or overthinking—it gets to feel peaceful… even if it doesn’t look like everyone else’s.

Here’s to a future filled with adventure, connection, creativity, presence, and joy—or whatever values feel true to you.

You’ve got this,
Bridie

**If you’re craving clarity and want to move forward without the worry of regret, book a free Clarity Coaching Call. We’ll explore where you’re at, what you need, and whether coaching is the right next step for you.

How Small Changes to Your Thoughts can Change Your Life

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Are you tempted to give up on your goals because sticking to them seems impossible?
Do worries about not being good enough stop you from trying?
Is the overwhelming pressure to do everything leaving you exhausted?

If any of this resonates, you’re not alone. These thoughts are common and affect nearly all of us at some point. But they don’t have to define your story.

If you:

  • Want to enhance your relationships and feel motivated to pursue your goals
  • Would love to wake up each day feeling good about yourself and your life
  • Want to stop feeling like your mind is an obstacle to your happiness

Keep reading. Change is on the horizon.

Many of us are ready for life to be different, to be better. But sometimes, making the necessary changes and sticking with them long enough to see results feels too hard.

I specialise in helping women uncover unhelpful thought patterns, deep-rooted beliefs, and outdated programming. My goal is to help you shift your thinking and strengthen your mindset.

I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to change everything in your life. Real transformation starts with shifting your thinking. When you change your thoughts, your life begins to change automatically.

To see real change in your life, you need to change your thinking about those areas.

“The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.”

Einstein

To experience positive changes in your relationships, finances, work, and home life, you must approach them with a new mindset. Shifting your thoughts and perspective will pave the way for new actions and behaviours.

Are you ready to see your life improve?

Here are some steps to get you started:

  1. Identify an area to focus on and acknowledge the need for change. Be as specific as possible.
  2. Write down any beliefs you have about this area – whether they are supportive or detrimental to your growth.
  3. List 10 different beliefs one could have about this. Choose a thought or belief that supports your growth and change, and find at least one piece of evidence that makes it ‘true’.
  4. Remind yourself of this belief often and immerse yourself in it. Surround yourself with people, books, gurus, and evidence that support it.

Taking these small steps will start to shift your trajectory and allow you to transform your life in incredible ways.

Transformation lies in our capacity to change our thoughts, one small thought at a time.

Are you ready to elevate your thinking, up level your life, and transform your reality? The adventure starts now.

Doing Goals Differently

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INSTEAD OF A NEW YEAR RESOLUTION, CREATE AN ACTION PLAN FOR SUCCESS

In the midst of life’s hustle, the path ahead can seem hazy, leaving us uncertain about our desires. We often navigate on autopilot, responding to the world around us without a clear direction. Setting specific goals demands trade-offs, and many shy away from making those necessary sacrifices.

For those genuinely dedicated to fostering enduring positive changes this year, consider adopting a potent NLP framework. Take charge of your journey by grabbing a pen and paper, and dive into the transformative power of strategic action planning right now.

  1. What do you want?
    • 1a. State your goal in positive terms.
    • 1b. Be self-directed.
  2. Make the goal appropriately sized (Do you feel inspired and motivated to achieve it or does it feel overwhelming?)
    **Remember you can create this smaller goal, celebrate your success and then create a new goal to continue towards your overall vision.
  3. How will you know when you have achieved it? What will be your evidence of success?
  4. Where, or in what situation(s) will the goal be relevant? Where might it be irrelevant?
  5. What stops you from pursuing this goal wholeheartedly?
  6. What personal resources do you already possess that you can draw upon to help you achieve your goal? eg. Personable, analytical, well spoken, enthusiastic etc
  7. What additional resources do you need in order to achieve your goal?
  8. How might the pursuit of your goal affect the important people in your life? Is there any risk associated with achieving this goal? eg. Partner could be upset that I am away from home more often.
  9. What are the daily actions you will need to take in order to achieve your goal? What is the first step you can take today?

    *Additional step: Visualise yourself having achieved the goal. What does it feel like? What can you see around you? How do you show up at home/work/social?
  10. Given everything I have considered to this point, is achieving this goal worth the effort?

Keep this visualisation alive in your mind. Reconnect with how it feels to be living with your desired outcome – this will be your fuel for taking daily action. Creating a life that aligns with your vision involves making small changes daily. It involves living as if your goal is already achieved. You will notice your thinking starting to shift, your internal words supporting your growth and vision. (If you notice old patterns and behaviours trying to sneak back in, get in touch).

Looking for support and an accountability partner? I am here for you. You don’t have to spend hours, weeks, months trying to work this out on your own. Helping you achieve your goals is WHAT I DO.

Click here to jump on a FREE Clarity Call and find out if my coaching is right for you.

With love,

Bridie x

Mastering the Language of Success:

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How Your Words Shape Beliefs, Actions, and a Life You Love

Small shifts in your language creates positive ripples of change in your relationships, career and the way you show up in this life. The following simple steps will help you to cultivate awareness & change around your inner dialogue, those phrases you keep repeating to yourself, for these words have the power to propel you forward or hold you in stagnation.

Awareness:

Choose an area of your life that could do with a shift. Perhaps self-doubt creeps in when you think about your work, or unhelpful thoughts appear when thinking about your body, relationships or health.

Write down one thought that makes you feel less confident, happy or motivated.

Exposing these thoughts is the first step to reprogramming them.

Stop & Switch:

When you have a reoccurring thought over and over it becomes automatic. You might have this thought without even realising as it has become programmed into your thinking. In order to reprogram it you need to be aware of its presence and consciously STOP it before you buy into its story and SWITCH it for something more useful.

What are 5 other thoughts you could have in this situation. Which one supports your journey and growth? This is your switch. Practice it. Visualise saying it. Write it on a post it note and stick it on your mirror.

The Power of Consistency:

Applying mindset shifts isn’t a one-time task; it’s a way of life. Consistency is key. Imagine your mind as a garden; by tending to it daily with positive language and empowering beliefs, you cultivate a lush and thriving mental landscape.

Measuring the Shift:

Track your progress. Notice how your language, beliefs, and actions have evolved. Celebrate every shift, no matter how small, as it brings you one step closer to a more empowered, fulfilled life.

Lasting Transformation:

Understanding mindset shifting is just the beginning. You can apply this to apply it in every facet of your life, from your career to your relationships, and witness the profound transformations that occur when you take charge of your thoughts.

Ready to unleash the full potential of your mind and create a life that truly resonates with your dreams?

Shift habits, rewire thinking, and break unhelpful patterns so you can step with confidence into the life that you CHOOSE with my 3 month Uncover, Rewire, Reignite™ coaching programme. 

3 Types of Imposter Syndrome & Ways to Overcome It

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Let’s delve into the world of imposter syndrome, a common experience many of us have faced. It’s that persistent feeling of inadequacy despite evidence of success. But fret not! I am here to help you tackle it head-on.

Today, we’ll explore three familiar types of imposter syndrome, offering relatable examples and practical solutions to overcome it. So, grab your beverage of choice, kick back, and let’s get started!

Meet The Perfectionist. This individual sets sky-high standards for themselves, striving for flawlessness in every endeavor. But perfection is an elusive goal, leading to undue stress and self-doubt. Take Morgan, for instance. Despite her impeccable track record, she’s plagued by feelings of inadequacy, fearing that she’ll be exposed as less competent than perceived. She dwells on mistakes and unrealistically expects perfection in everything she does.

But fear not! Here’s a fun antidote: the “Imperfect Creations” Challenge. Gather your mates for a creative challenge where the aim is not perfection, but rather embracing the beauty of imperfection. Whether it’s a painting, a craft project, or even a goofy dance routine, the goal is to embrace the process rather than focus on perfection. Have a good laugh at the end, celebrating the beauty of imperfection and the joy of simply enjoying the momentT

The Expert in Disguise

This type affects individuals who feel they’ve fooled others into thinking they’re experts, despite feeling like they’re merely “winging it.” They fear being exposed as frauds, despite possessing valuable knowledge and skills.

Consider Liv, a highly accomplished professional who consistently shines in her career. Despite her stellar achievements, Liv doubts her abilities and downplays her success, fearing she’ll be unmasked as a fraud. But here’s the truth: you deserve your accomplishments!

Organise a “Show and Tell” session with your closest friends. Each person can share something they’re passionate about or a skill they excel at, followed by a mini-tutorial. By showcasing your expertise in a supportive environment, you’ll gain confidence in your abilities. Remember, you’re not an imposter; you’re an expert in your own unique way!

The Comparison Queen. She’s constantly sizing up her success against others, convinced they have it all together while she’s just pretending. But here’s the truth: everyone’s journey is unique, and we all face challenges along the way. So, it’s time to focus on your own path and celebrate your victories, no matter how small.

Take Kyla, for example. She finds herself endlessly scrolling through social media, comparing herself to others’ highlight reels and feeling inadequate. But it’s time to shift the focus back to your own journey.

Here’s your next step: start an “Inspiration Swap” book club with your friends. Each member selects a book that has inspired and empowered them on their personal journey. As you read and discuss these books together, you’ll gain valuable insights, learn from each other’s experiences, and celebrate the diverse paths to success and fulfillment.

Imposter syndrome may try to steal your confidence, but armed with strategies and a positive mindset, you can overcome it. Embrace your imperfections, recognize your expertise, and stop comparing yourself to others. You’re amazing just the way you are! Let’s banish imposter syndrome and embrace our brilliance together. You’ve got this!

If you are ready for accelerated positive change, connection is key. Having a coach to help recognise your blind spots, offer a different perspective, guide you through challenges and be your accountability partner is paramount. Click the link below to book your free Clarity Call so you take your next steps with confidence. 

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Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: A Guide for BadA$$ Women

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The persistent feeling of inadequacy, the fear of being exposed as a fraud, despite evidence of your competence and accomplishments…sound familiar? Your’e not alone. Imposter syndrome is a common phenomenon that plagues many women in their professional and personal lives. This self-doubt can hold them back from reaching their full potential and hinder their ability to embrace new opportunities.

In a society that often pressures women to meet unrealistic standards of success, appearance, and perfection, imposter syndrome can become a significant barrier to their self-confidence and well-being. It’s time to break free from the grip of self-doubt and embrace your authentic self.

This blog post is here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment. It’s a reminder that you are not alone in experiencing imposter syndrome and that you have the power to overcome it. We will explore practical strategies and mindset shifts that will help you build self-confidence, silence your inner critic, and step into your true potential.

The not so pretty side of Imposter Syndrome:

      1. Self-Limiting Beliefs: These beautiful women end up underestimating their capabilities and potential. It creates a self-imposed glass ceiling, preventing them from taking risks, pursuing opportunities, and taking bold risks. 

      1. Reduced Self-Confidence:  It can feel a challenge to assert oneself, speak up, and share ideas. It hinders individuals from fully showcasing their skills and talents, holding them back from achieving their goals.

      1. Fear of Failure and Perfectionism: The fear of failure is intensified, making individuals reluctant to step outside their comfort zones. The pressure to be perfect becomes overwhelming, leading to procrastination, anxiety, and an inability to embrace growth opportunities.

      1. Mental and Emotional Exhaustion: One’s mental and emotional energy can be drained. The fear of being exposed or making mistakes creates a perpetual state of anxiety and stress, negatively impacting overall well-being.

      1. Stifled Personal Growth: The barrier to personal growth is strengthened by discouraging individuals from taking on new challenges, pursuing passions, or seeking advancement opportunities. It keeps them confined within their comfort zones.

    That sounds shit…but never fear. Here are some powerful tools to start the shift.  

        • Mindful Awareness: Cultivate mindfulness to become more aware of your thoughts and self-talk patterns. Notice when your inner critic arises and the specific language it uses. This heightened awareness allows you to recognise and distance yourself from negative self-talk, making it easier to challenge and reframe those thoughts.
        • Thought Replacement: Replace negative self-talk with power statements and affirmations Create a list of statements that counteract your specific self-doubts. For example, if you often doubt your competence, remind yourself of your achievements and capabilities & your ability to learn and grow. Repeat these statements regularly to rewire your inner dialogue.
        • Externalise the Critic: Give your inner critic a name or persona to externalise it from your true self. By separating your authentic voice from the critical voice, you can better recognise when the inner critic is speaking and consciously choose not to give it power over your thoughts and actions.
        • Limiting Beliefs: Identify the limiting beliefs that underpin your self-doubt. These beliefs often revolve around notions of not being good enough, fear of failure, or needing external validation. Question the validity of these beliefs and seek evidence to challenge their accuracy. Replace them with more empowering beliefs that support your self-confidence and growth.
      Shifting your thinking and developing self-confidence is a process. This probably won’t happen over night, but with practice, you WILL see and experience positive shifts and changes. And once you do, there is no going back. You, my friend, like many others will become obsessed with personal development and seeing yourself develop into the bad A$$ woman you knew you could be. 
       

      If you are ready for accelerated positive change, connection is key. Having a coach to help recognise your blind spots, offer a different perspective, guide you through challenges and be your accountability partner is paramount. Click the link below to book your free Clarity Call so you take your next steps with confidence. 

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      Unleash Your Inner Confidence and Tame Your Critic

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      5 Steps to Tame Your Inner Critic and Cultivate Self-Trust & Confidence

      On the path of personal growth and self-discovery, one hurdle we encounter is the relentless presence of our inner critic and the destructive power of negative self talk. That nagging voice inside our head that undermines your confidence and questions your abilities can hinder your progress and limit your potential.  But fear not, for in this post we will explore effective strategies to increase self confidence, reduce the power of our inner critic, and nurture a stronger sense of self-trust. 

      Get ready to unlock your inner power and unleash the confident, self-assured woman within you.

          1. Recognise Your Inner Critic: The first step in silencing your inner critic is to recognise its presence. Become aware of the negative self-talk patterns and the specific areas where your confidence takes a hit. By shining a light on this inner voice, you can gain a deeper understanding of its impact and take conscious steps to counter its influence. I often get my clients to name their inner critic. This can help to create some distance between you and “Barb”, “Sharon” or “Susan”. She is not you. You can choose to listen to her or not.
          2. Understand that this voice is there to protect you: It is made up of all your childhood fears, embarrassments, pain and it is trying to stop you from having to experience that again – but sometimes its judgement is shit. If we were to listen to every word we would be staying still..stagnant…stuck. Learning to acknowledge it, thank it for trying to protect you, and letting it know that it is not needed right now is a small but easy way to decrease its power.
          3. Challenge Your Inner Critic: Once you’ve identified your inner critic, it’s time to challenge its validity. Ask yourself: Are these thoughts based on facts or mere assumptions? Replace self-defeating beliefs with empowering affirmations. Cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on your strengths, accomplishments, and the progress you’ve made along your journey. Challenge the negative self-talk with evidence of your capabilities and potential.
          4. Cultivate Self-Compassion: Developing self-compassion is essential in building self-confidence. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a friend. Embrace the fact that making mistakes and experiencing setbacks are part of the growth process. Replace self-judgment with self-compassion, allowing room for learning, growth, and self-acceptance. Remember, you are human, and it’s okay to have flaws. Find a way to nurture yourself that feels authentic and meaningful.
          5. Nurture Positive Self-Talk: Become mindful of your internal dialogue and consciously shift it towards positive self-talk. Whenever your inner critic surfaces, reframe the negative thoughts into supportive and encouraging statements. Replace “I can’t do it” with “I am capable and resilient.” Practice affirmations that resonate with you and repeat them regularly to reinforce positive self-beliefs. With time and consistency, positive self-talk becomes a natural part of your mindset. I am a firm believer in the power of our thoughts. So intentionally CHOOSE thoughts that empower and motivate.

        Increasing self-confidence and cultivating self-trust is a transformative process that requires awareness, commitment, and self-compassion. By recognising and challenging your inner critic, practicing self-compassion & nurturing positive self-talk you can unlock the doors to a more confident, empowered, and fulfilled version of yourself. Trust in your capabilities, believe in your worth, and step forward with confidence on your path to personal greatness. Remember, you have all the tools within you to embrace your true potential and create a life filled with self-assurance and self-trust.

        PS: If you are ready to deep dive into your transformation, I am here to support you. Flick me a message and let’s have a free Clarity Session to give you a clear action plan so can take your next step with confidence. Link below. 

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        WTF is Mindfulness (and how to start)

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        Stress is an inevitable part of life, especially for women who are often juggling multiple responsibilities, expectations and roles at once. However, ongoing stress can take a toll on your physical and mental health (don’t I fucking know it!). That’s why it’s essential to practice stress management techniques to maintain your overall wellbeing and ensure you enjoy this crazy thing called life. One technique used by millions of people around the world is mindfulness, which can help you manage stress and improve your emotional regulation.

        WTF is mindfulness? Mindfulness is the practice of being present and fully engaged in the present moment – no matter how mundane it may seem. It involves paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations without judgment. By focusing on the present moment, you can turn down the volume of the endless jumble of unwanted thoughts that often leave you feeling overwhelmed and focusing on unhelpful shit.

        How does mindfulness help with stress management? Stress triggers the body’s fight or flight response, which can cause physical and emotional symptoms. Mindfulness can help you regulate your body’s response to stress by promoting relaxation and reducing the physiological symptoms of stress. Additionally, mindfulness can help you identify negative thought patterns and reframe them in a more empowering, productive light.

        What are some mindfulness techniques? Here are a few mindfulness techniques that you can practice daily:

        1. Breathing exercises: Eg square breathing – picture the 4 sides of a square. As you go up the side inhale, hold the breath across the top, exhale as you go down, and hold the breath across the bottom. I have another blog post all about this – check it out for more techniques.
        2. Body scan meditation: Lie down in a comfortable position and bring your attention to your body. Start at your toes and slowly move your attention up your body, noticing any sensations without judgment.
        3. Mindful eating: Pay attention to the taste, smell, and texture of your food. Eat slowly and savor each bite.
        4. 5,4,3,2,1: In any moment, pause and notice 5 things you can see, 4 things you can feel, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and 1 thing you can taste. This is very powerful and helps us to bring our attention to the present moment.

        How can you incorporate mindfulness into your daily life? Here are a few tips to help you incorporate mindfulness into your daily routine:

        1. Start small: Begin with short mindfulness exercises, such as a few minutes of breathing exercises each day. Gradually increase the length of your practice as you become more comfortable.
        2. Practice regularly: Consistency is key to developing a mindfulness practice. Try to practice every day, even if it’s just for a few minutes.
        3. Find a community: Consider joining a mindfulness group or finding an accountability partner to help you stay motivated.
        4. Be patient: Mindfulness is a skill that takes time to develop. Don’t expect to see immediate results and be patient with yourself.

        Mindfulness is a powerful tool that can help us to manage stress and enhance ones overall sense of wellbeing. By incorporating mindfulness techniques into your daily routine, you can improve your emotional regulation and reduce the negative effects of stress on your mind and body. Start small, practice regularly, and be patient with yourself, and you’ll soon notice the positive benefits of mindfulness.

        Have questions about how to start? Don’t hesitate to get in touch.

        Love B x